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A Powerful Story about Overcoming Limitations …
My family and I moved to a bungalow in a very quiet area
to maximize my recovery from a serious illness. The
location is really lovely but the closest bus stop is
about 15 minutes walk for a healthy person. Driving,
therefore, was very essential. I was taking my young son
to school and back, driving him to various activities,
enjoyed short walks and was on my way to recovery.
In a beautiful September evening 2004 I was standing in
front of my house, on a very quiet street (no sidewalks or
curbs) when a car turned on my street, hit the parked mini
van that in turn hit me. It was a miracle I wasn’t
killed. Among my injuries, I developed severe
anxiety including anxiety to driving. Within a couple of
days this became a huge issue. The accident happened on
Saturday. On
Monday, my at that time 9 year old son needed
to go to school. I had to attend physiotherapy and my
husband, older son and friends drove us there. I felt my
life became a chaos. It took 2 weeks before we were able
to arrange for school bus for my 9-year old. Still, I
needed help with driving me to therapies, errands,
stores. I felt useless. Very quickly I realized what
driving meant in my life. Despite huge every day
inconvenience I could not force myself to drive. I was
scared that someone hits my car, or something happens to
my child or that I hit someone or something. I was afraid
when walking as well. There was no safety for me
anymore.
Driver Rehabilitation Services Inc. was recommended and finally after the assessment and
approval my driving therapist came for the first session.
At the beginning I was a passenger and felt very
comfortable. The therapist was very careful not to make
my anxiety worse. On my third or forth session I actually
was behind the wheel and it was my own decision. It
wasn’t easy. I was annoyed by anything on the road.
However, I felt very comfortable on an empty road.
Slowly, I moved from small streets with almost no traffic,
to familiar to me major streets, drove to gym, my son’s
school and grocery store. Later I expanded my driving to
different places that I visited regularly before my
accident. I was progressing slowly but steadily. I
started driving alone about April 2005. I was glad that I
could attend to my own needs like driving myself to the
gym and drive my son to his swimming lessons. I got my
independence back and felt useful again. I can’t express
in words what this therapy meant to me. My instructor was
ALWAYS very positive and happy. He gave my many tips and
assured me that I can drive. Some days were better than
other. At present, I finished about 30 sessions and I
drive quite comfortably in my city. Also, I tried highway
but so far I feel okay when the instructor is beside with
his extra mirrors and brakes and of course his help.
My life has changed for better. I have
number of limitations but driving is not one of them
anymore. I’m not driving to other cities but can do my
own errands, take myself and my son to our appointments,
go to different stores, feel independent most of the
time. Last week, first time in over 18 months I took my
now 11-year old son to the nearby sport store to buy him a
mini hockey stick. It was an achievement as we went right
after 3p.m. in quite busy traffic, … what I’ve been really
avoiding. My son and I had the nicest 30 minutes and I’m
sure we both will always remember that afternoon.
I’m really grateful for the help I have received and to
now be able to drive again and recommend Driver
Rehabilitation Services to everyone who feels any
anxiety to driving.
A
Grateful Client
Testimonial – Diana B.
I was a very independent and active mom of four. Driving was a big
part of my life. When a van ran a red light two years ago, my life changed. The mom
everyone depended on was now dependant on everyone for everything. I became
depressed, isolated, and was faced with many obstacles. I did not know if I
could ever drive again.
The first day of my Driver Rehabilitation Services’
treatment session was an emotional one with tears and anxiety. But your
Driving Therapist, Joan, had faith in
me. She first helped me to get comfortable being in the car. When I started
driving, she was calm and patient even when I was nervous and frustrated. Joan gave me
positive feedback and strategies to apply to my driving which helped me immensely.
Driver Rehab Services has made me feel confident and comfortable with driving even with my
physical limitations. God Bless you Joan for your patience and your faith that I would
get through this challenge. You are truly a wonderful
instructor and a wonderful person.
Thank you for giving me
back a big part of my independence.
I am truly grateful.
Diana B. (PERMISSION TO USE “DIANA B.” GRANTED)
Testimonial – F.
I’m so grateful that a program like Driver
Rehabilitation Services exists, otherwise I would have
rather let my driver’s license expire than face another
road test! Working with a driving therapist is completely
different from your average driving instructor. For those
of us who experience anxiety when behind the wheel, a
driving therapist offers hope that you can overcome your
fear. After a series of sessions with my driving therapist
I finally had the courage to take my G-2 road test. I was
prepared to fail the test yet still consider myself a
success just because I made the attempt. However I am
happy to say that I did pass the test and am now a fully
licensed driver and I know I couldn’t have done it without
the help of DRS!
My Story - Chantal Wilson
My
experience with Driver Rehabilitation Services has
been a positive contribution to my healing process. The
Driving Therapist was patient and encouraging whenever my
fears and anxieties would manifest themselves.
He provided an understanding and safe environment in which
I could objectively examine and assess my anxieties. I
learned to develop effective strategies that I could use
when driving on my own, and was faced with
various challenges
and obstacles on the road. The in-vehicle rehabilitation
sessions were instrumental in rebuilding my confidence, in
reinforcing my driving skills and in regaining control
over my anxieties. This in turn, is helping to reduce, to
some degree, the chronic pain which was aggravated by my
higher anxiety level.
The professional services of DRS were an important
component
of my recovery process.
Chantal (Name
used with Permission)
Testimonial – Teresa Kehoe
15 years
driving with no problems until 2002. It happened in an
intersection. He ran a red light. I was hurt. I’m doing
rehab for injury. I could not go on Highway (speeding
cars). In city driving NO WAY! Walking near moving cars -I
was scared – and never went to intersections. Always used
side streets and AVOID intersections.
Driver Rehabilitation Services and Joan have given me back my daily living - events, kids,
confidence. My anxiety is not so high. 'I can do it,' is
what I tell myself on each journey I take when I drive.
* I can go
on the Link. *I
can drive in a city. *I
can drive on the 403.
* I learned
to watch where tires are.
*I
can drive on the Sherman access.
I talk to
myself when I drive and that’s OK to do!
I can
overcome these driving challenges and you can too!!!
--Teresa Kehoe
(PERMISSION TO USE NAME GRANTED)
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